We had a Notary on our site who texted a client and said, “You’re kind of hot.” The next thing I know I get a complaint. I emailed the Notary who said, “That never happened.” Boy. However, this is the first time I have heard of this happening. Usually it is the client who is weird and lives in a decrepit house and has long toenails and smells funny who invite lady notaries to their bedrooms.
The moral of the story is, if you like your client, it is best not to come on too strong otherwise you get a complaint. For some of you that means you will be single your entire life. On the other hand, raising children is so expensive that perhaps you are better off. Oh, and if you ever run for office, forget about sexting.
And before I forget — happy Valentines day! And remember, don’t sext and drive!
One more thing… If a text is a text, and a sexual text is a sext, then what is a Notarial text? A next?
Also see — Notary Sexual Harassment Issues
Notary Pick Up Lines Part 2
But, I’m still a virgin!
Safe notarizing is like safe sex. Don’t have unprotected notarizations.
A Notary complained to me that he received a package where the instructions were on page four. This Notary makes it a habit to always read the instructions. But, I guess he doesn’t read between the lines. As a Notary, you really need to quickly scan all of the pages of a package to make sure there are no mystery signers who don’t know they need to be there like the evil sister in law or mother in law.
What would you call it if a mother and law and brother in law needed to sign the Deed of Trust, Note RTC, TIL and HUD? That would be the inlaws signing the legals. Very punny.
In any case, if you don’t scan all the documents there might be surprises. As a mobile notary, you want to minimize suprizes by being prepared. Also, you should ask lots of good questions when confirming the signing. Check the date, time, location, how the ID reads, if there are payments due, APR, rate, numbers on the CD, if they have time for the entire signing which could take 90 minutes, and if all the people who are supposed to be there will be there.
Be prepared, and only you can prevent notary disasters!
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We have a lot of Notaries on 123notary who just don’t login. Some of them get removed eventually. But, I wondered how they would do on tests. When I give my little quizzes that everyone hates, some people do especially poorly. People who don’t login often are twice as likely to get failing grades on my quiz. If they don’t have the effort to login, they also don’t put in the effort to study or know what they are doing.
In this industry there is such apathy and negligence. I don’t know what the problem is with just mastering your trade. It is offensive and dangerous to be a Notary who doesn’t know the basics. You have no idea how much trouble you can get into.
In any case, since the state governments refuse to crack down on negligent Notaries, the responsibility falls upon me which I find unfortunate and unpleasant. The moral of the story is, please login regularly, study up on your notary knowledge and keep your profile ship shape — always!
Anytime I enforce any rule on 123notary which preserves order, I get endless bashing. If I announce a new policy, there will be an online riot on Facebook and Linked In. If I remove people for refusing to login to their listing, there will be endless strings on Notary Rotary. When I enstated mandatory quizzing which was only about five questions, people had fits and wanted to argue, threaten me with lawsuits and defame me.
I am trying to run a quality directory here. That is all I want to do. I don’t want to harm anyone. Actually, I want to prevent people from being harmed, namely the fools who hire these rabid Notaries who are out to get me. They want to be enemies with the people who list them and who hire them. Bad attitude. If you want to get ahead, think of the people who help you as friends and not enemies.
Many accused me of not being “professional.” I agree. By listing substandard Notaries, I am being very unprofessional. The Notaries who call me unprofessional call me so because I put my foot down when they talk back to me and I forcefully take the upper hand in the conversation. This would not need to happen if people would just act politely and understand that this is indeed my site, my personal property, and I am the one who decides how it is run and not someone else. When you are in my house, you wipe your feet, but you do not have to take off your shoes. My house, my rules. Very simple to understand. In your house you do what you like.
The amount of hatred and bashing has been going on for years, but the general atmosphere and lack of standards seems to have taken a new low in 2017 and I am basically deciding that it is not respectable to list some of these people. So, in order to get rid of the really hostile people and provide a positive atmosphere for those who want to learn and who want to be cooperative and quality Notaries, I am going to change policies, raise prices, and make mentoring and eductation a mandatory part of being listed on 123notary for ALL paying listings. This is great for Notaries who enjoy it because that means low cost and high quality learning and will help them make a lot more money in the long run. For those who hate the idea of cooperating with anyone, it might be the parting of the ways for us. We’ll see. Or maybe you’ll change your attitude. My attitude is going more and more towards standards, and the more you fight me, the higher my standards will be.